Good Husband Award

Today I brought James some candy.  Just because.  :)

Ecard

It has been years since I sent an ecard, but I sent one tonight to my aunt.  Just a simple message to let her know the girls and I are thinking about her.

Advice

I have never done this before.....Yesterday I started a gratitude journal (been meaning to for a long time) where I write 5 things I am thankful for.  Well, it is already working on the second day!  Tonight on the way home from James' parents house I was looking out the window and things looked so bright and clear, and I thought "I am so glad I had Lasik done!"  I am starting to notice, and be grateful for, the little things around me that I might not have noticed.  So today I am advising the many followers of this blog (haha) to start one of their own and see the changes in their own thinking!
Now I am taking a week off, since we will not have internet.  See you soon!

Is the Day Over Yet?

Ugh.  After the day I have had, I wanted nothing to do with being nice to anyone.  But if there is anything I have learned from this blog, it is that THESE are the days I really need to!  So I dug out of my annoyance and sent people some encouraging messages.  And you know what?  I do feel better!  :)

Why Can't the Right Thing Be the Easy Thing?

Tonight as I finished walking the dog, I saw our neighbor out in her driveway.  I wanted to run in the house before she saw me so I didn't have to be uncomfortable and think of something to say.  Instead I took Champ in and walked over.  The poor woman was on the phone with a screaming relative of her late husband who wants to see his will.  Sue can't even grieve because of all the stress his family has put on her.  When she finished, I got to let her vent about the situation.  I again told her to let me know if she needs anything.  Hopefully she feels a little bit better and can get some sleep tonight.  I think that was better than bringing food!

A Neighbor in Need

Right after the girls and I got home from the gym, our next door neighbor rang the bell.  I don't like answering the door when James isn't home.  She rang a couple times and I ignored her.  Well, James saw her when he got home and told me her husband passed away.  I have been praying for Paul's cancer for months and hadn't realized he was getting worse.  Of course I feel bad, but I wouldn't have been able to chat in the middle of the day with the girls home anyways.  So I went over and rang her doorbell.  For once, no one that lives there was home!  So I wrote a note telling her I know there is nothing I can say that will make her feel better but I am praying for her and her family.

Being Nice at the Pool

At the pool today, we brought a float that is shaped like a duck.  Lauren tried using it, but she is really too big for it.  One of our neighbors' little girls played with it and just LOVED it.  Her mom tried to give it back, and we told her to just keep it.  I am sure Kaitlyn could have still played with it, but it felt good to let Victoria have it!

MUST Lunches

Monday is the first time this summer that our Church is helping MUST Ministries provide lunches to kids who need them (who would normally have school provide it.)  There is usually 3 throughout the summer.  I signed up to bring in 50 baggies of baby carrots this weekend.  Then the other day I got an email from the coordinator that they need more brought in.  Since it is a holiday weekend, people are probably not around.  So I told her I would also bring in 50 juice boxes.  Whew!  It feels good to give kids the food they need.

Facebook Fun

My aunt Vivi has been on my mind so I sent her a message that I love her.  I also have been praying for one of my college roommates.  Her husband may have a chance at a job across the country, so she asked that we pray about their decision.  I just sent her a message to tell her I have been praying and to see how things are.

Some Witty Phrase

I decided to write a note to one of Mom's friends.  Her son and daughter-in-law just had their second child. So I took the time to tell her congratulations.  (Well, it has been a while, but better late than never!) 

One Last Treat

Today I made cookies and took them to the teachers and staff at Lauren's preschool.  Tomorrow is the last day of school, and Lauren has had a wonderful year.  I included a general thank you note for their hard work.  I think a good preschool base really paves the way for the future!

A Listening Ear

While at the gym today, I had on my headphones and was content to watch TV.  The elderly gentleman next to me kept trying to talk to me (and when I say talk I really mean shout).  At first I politely answered his questions and went on. Then after awhile, I left them off and listened to him.  He told me about his great granddaughter and what he does for a living.  It wasn't what I wanted to do, but I could spare a few minutes from the Doctors TV show!

Done by 9 AM!

This morning I had some nice quiet time!  I wrote a letter to someone who has had a big impact on my life.  Sometimes we assume people know how we feel, but even if they do, reminders are great!  An email would have worked, but having it on paper means much more.  Does that make me sound old?

Early Birthday Present

So today James brought home a gift card that he won and gave to me for Amazon.  I suppose I could think of something to do with it myself, but God has other plans.  See, I have a friend who has struggled for years to tithe a full 10% and she finally was able to let go and do it.  I know how hard it is to be on one income with kids and give that money.  When James and I decided to give God the first money of each paycheck, it really blessed us.  Doing so was second nature to me, but not to James.  Anyways, once this friend started tithing regularly, I felt God wanting to use me to bless her for it.  We talked a while back about how she would like a Kindle.  I told God if He wanted me to help her get one, He would have to let me know.  When this gift card fell in my lap, I knew!

Every Little Bit Helps!

Kaitlyn and I were out this morning and her reward for being so good was lunch at Chick Fil A.  (Well fine, it was a reward for both of us!)  They were taking collections for Relay for Life, so I put my change in one of the jars.  Funny, but before this blog I didn't notice how many places had these out.  And I didn't have much change on me either......

Birthday Card

Today is James' brother Robert's birthday.  I made sure to have Lauren make him a card.  10 days ago was the other brother Thomas' birthday, and she made one for him.  Robert is sensitive about being left out, even unintentionally.  The girls get their names mixed up most times, but they really love their uncles!  I just don't want Robert to feel bad on his birthday.

Not to Brag...

But I have lost a little weight lately.  OK maybe a little bragging.  :)  I went through my closet and tried on clothes.  Whatever was too big I am giving away.  I gave some clothes away recently, but obviously not everything!

Weekly Note

Since I haven't heard from my brother Keith lately, I thought I would go all Grandma on him and send him a letter!  He used to call often for advice and even to chat, but not so much lately.  I want him to remember I pray for him everyday, and of course he will get a Lauren original!

Stamp Out Hunger

Before leaving to get Lauren at school and then running to Walmart, I got the mail.  They had included a plastic bag for their annual food drive.  So while at Walmart, I picked up nonperishable food items.  Now all I have to do is leave the bag by the mailbox Saturday! (The poor mail lady......)

Oops!

Sitting here tonight with the kids finally in bed, it hit me that I hadn't done this yet.  How do I still forget some days when I have been doing this since September?  Oh well.  I connected with and encouraged people on facebook.    Simple, easy and fun.  And I usually hear back from them when I do this.

Why Is This So Hard?

We had things planned for today, but I rearranged the day for Kaitlyn.  She wasn't sick but wasn't feeling good.  We read and played more and stayed in.  What gave me this idea was Mike's sermon Sunday.  One thing he said stuck with me and that is that we should be kind to those we are around most, and then we can be kind to strangers.  It makes no sense to me, since I find it easier to be around strangers sometimes!  But I am challenging myself to be more patient with my family.

We Are Now Nurses

Our little friend Maggie broke her collarbone this weekend (ouch!) so the girls and I decided to try to make her feel better.  To keep her still and calm-pretty much impossible for a 4 year old-we are letting her borrow our copy of the movie Tangled.  She hasn't seen it, so maybe she will sit still and watch it a bunch over the next few weeks.  And we made cupcakes and took half to her family.  I know I know, we are giving her sugar and then hoping she will be calm.  Good luck with that Carrie!

They Will Taste Even Better

Tonight is Lauren's preschool's spring fling.  They have been asking for baked good donations this week and I forgot until this morning!  I took a cake there so I feel better.  The proceeds of the event are going to Reach Out and Read, the Children's Miracle Network, and Children's Hunger Relief Fund.  You can't choose just one of those causes I guess!

Dinner!

Well, tonight I had to twist an arm to do something nice!  Carrie was driving the 2 of us downtown to a book signing.  I told her I would buy her dinner since she had driven.  The only way I could convince her to let me was to tell her it was for my blog.  ha!

Some Thoughts

Before I went to drop off clothes this morning, I found unused cosmetics (mostly gifts with purchase) and travel sized deoderant, tooth paste, a tooth brush, and a razor.  All these things were free, but I don't travel so I won't use them.  I also included 2 books-365 Day Brighteners and Finding Hope When Life's Not Fair.  I thought people might like these things!
When I got to the Tae Kwon Do place that is collecting, no one was there!  So I called the number on the door and talked to a man.  He laughed and said the response has been pretty overwhelming.  They have had to close up a few times to be able to move donations out. He thanked me several times for bringing clothes!  I felt humbled because all I did was gather up a few things and drive them over.  This local business went above and beyond to help out.  Most people want to help when tragedy strikes, but we don't know what to do.  I didn't know anyone personally who lost their home in the tornadoes.  Having someone who was willing to coordinate and do the real work will mean the world to those hurting people.

Blessing People Who Really Need It

This afternoon I have been gathering up some clothes and blankets to donate to tornado victims.  They told us at Church where we can bring those types of things by Thursday.  My plan is to drop it all off tomorrow. Maybe we will include some toys!

Encouragement

Tonight I gave some people encouragement on Facebook.  One of my friends' husband started his job today, that we have been praying about for months.  I checked on one cousin's sick baby, and another cousin who started a job today.  I like to remind people I am praying for them.  I know that always makes me feel good to hear someone say!

Undie Sunday

This Sunday our Church is collecting socks and underwear for tornado victims.  The point was made that people will donate used clothes, but rarely unused undergarments.  I am going to get some later. 

We All Face Storms

Some of us literally.  After the storms devastated so many areas last night, I am thankful our home and family were safe.  It is hard to see the destroyed homes and buildings on the news.  I figure the least I could do is give some money.  We may still donate items, but today I made a donation to the Red Cross.

What the?

For some reason, I got a big container of formula in the mail today.  I barely used it when I HAD babies, and my youngest is almost 3!  I wasn't sure what to do with it but decided to take it to my friend with a newborn.  She is using formula and was very thankful for it!  On the way home Lauren and I discussed why we had gone there.  In the end she didn't get it, so I just enforced that we were giving something to a friend that we couldn't use.

They're BA-ACK!

Since yesterday our rose bush had a bunch of blooms-first of the season!  This morning I cut a few, and Lauren took 2 to school for her teachers.  I want her to experience the smiles this act will bring.  On the way home from school I asked if they liked them.  We spent a couple minutes chatting about how good it feels to do something nice for someone before she told me about the worm she found.  Baby steps I guess.

Getting Better at This

After a hectic day, a trip grocery shopping with 2 kids didn't make it any easier.  I saw that the cashier and bagger whose line I was entering are young, so I grabbed some Cokes.  As we were finishing up, I handed them the Cokes and said "these are for you."  It felt less weird this time than in the past!  The looks on their faces were shocked when they thanked me.  As I walked away, I heard them say how awesome it was.  Something small can make someone's day (or at least their breaktime) happier! And those smiles were contagious to me!

A Twofer

James is with Lauren right now, getting her 5 year check up-and 4 or 5 shots!  So I thought I would distract her from the pain and do something nice for James' family.  Cookies are in the oven.... Lauren can have one and then we will take the rest to Grandma and Grandpa tonight.  Poor kid!

Had to Really Dig In!

At the register at Walgreen this morning, there was a container taking donations for Relay for Life.  This just drew me in as I have participated in Relay in the past.  Being there was an inspiration as there are many cancer survivors, and hearing their stories as they are being honored is very moving.  So I dug in my purse for about 5 minutes and found the change to donate.  Maybe one day I will participate with my girls!

Friends Are a Gift From God

Now that I have my own Christian friend in the neighborhood, I understand my Mom's friendship in our PA neighborhood even more!  When you stay at home with small children, it can be very isolating.  I love having someone who understands my life and agrees on big issues with me  :)  We may not get together as often as the West Chester crew seemed to, but we are there for each other.  I wrote a note to one of the ladies (the one I don't talk to on the phone as often) and thanked her for blessing my Mom and loving our family. 

Musings

Today has been a restless day for me.  James is playing tennis tonight, so the day has seemed endless.  I decided to read some of my Little Book of Joy to inspire myself. 
Two quotes that stuck out to me are "If God chooses to remain silent, faith is content." Ruth Bell Graham
"Blessings can either humble us and draw us closer to God or allow us to become full of pride and self-sufficiency."  Jim Cymbala

I found some for some friends, to encourage and inspire them.  My friend Holly was telling me this morning that her Dad is probably ready for hospice to come in, but he doesn't want it.  Our conversation brought up memories of my Mom and hospice, so I gave her a verse.  

More For MUST

Mondays are usually usually easier for me, since I have to go to the grocery store.  It really opens up my options!  I got canned goods for MUST Ministries.  They are always in need!

Mo Money

James' brother's girlfriend (did you get that?) is running a half marathon in June and is supposed to raise $1500!  What a big challenge-both the running and the fundraising.  I made a donation which goes to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

My Prolific Child!

Lauren came home from school a woman on a mission.  That child has colored up a storm!  The first picture she did is for her Boppa (which brought tears to my eyes from being so sweet). The next one is for aunt Merrilyn.  This picture is very good too!  Now she is doing one for her friend Maggie.  Maggie and her Mama brought Lauren a gift and cookies the other day so I had planned on doing something for them when we return the cookie container.  I guess that can be the picture!

For Today and Tomorrow

There was a stack of Lauren's artwork in the kitchen.....and now there is not.  I picked out a few to send to my cousins Jill and Julie and their families.  Both have kids who are so much older than mine, so I thought they would get a kick out of a small child's art.  :)

I Can't Imagine

This morning at the grocery store I made a donation to the March of Dimes.  We put it in Kaitlyn's name  :)  Having a sick baby would be so difficult.  You can't explain what is wrong and why they feel bad, and you can't take it on yourself.  Thank God for companies like March of Dimes for support and research!

Big Spender!

While shoe shopping today, I went to Starbucks (which is in the shoe store!  Came in handy today.)  I'll be honest, I don't tip for a coffee.  It's coffee.  But I had found a bunch of change in my purse and dropped some in.  Technically I gave more than 20%.  I'd say that is generous, even if it isn't much money.  :)

No Postage

This week has been challenging with Lauren home and the girls fighting.  (What am I going to do in the summer?)  All my energy and brain power has been going to them, and I have been running out of ideas for this!  But today I connected with several people on Facebook and encouraged and congratulated them.  Not the same as a note in the mail, but you gotta keep up with the times!

Took 5 Minutes

I decided to write a note to our old neighbor Nancy.  She sends me notes periodically and tells me how her girls are.  All I usually send are pictures.  So I decided to write and thank her for keeping me informed.  And for praying for our family with the other ladies every week  :)

They Don't Work For Us Anymore

Despite my love for being barefoot, I can't imagine not having shoes at all!  I was reading an article that talked about people not wearing shoes for a whole day to raise awareness for kids who can't afford them.  Now, I am not going to not wear shoes, but I AM going to give some away.  I bought new sneakers 2 months ago but apparently they are too narrow.  (Or my feet are fat, but we won't go there.)  They are Adidas and new, so it pains me to replace them, but they hurt my feet so bad!  Normally I would toss an old pair in the trash, but these are good shoes for someone else.  And since little kids' feet grow fast, I am going to take some of my shoes as well as the girls', and donate them.

Extra Blessing

One of our pastors spoke yesterday about using the talents you were given.  I have always felt I don't really have any-I mean, I am OK at some things, but nothing has ever really stuck out to me.  But it occurred to me during the sermon that this blog is my way of using what God gave me the way I can.  I am good at encouraging people and giving little things to brighten their day.  It seems small to me, but at least it is something!
This is Lauren's spring break so I am already exhausted!  After the kids go to bed tonight, I am going to spend time praying.  I pray throughout each day, but I am going to really pray for family and friends.  One is my friend Holly.  I found out today that doctors say her Dad's cancer has gotten worse and they are taking him off his medicine.  So I will pray for her and the rest of my list.

I Am Counting It!

Carrie and I are doing a 5K run/walk tomorrow (emphasis on the walk) and had the option of picking up our shirt and goodie bag today.  I told her I would get both of ours.  The girls and I sat in traffic, and I had to listen to Lauren talk the entire time.  So I am counting this as a good deed, even though I needed mine anyways.  :)

Not Their Fault!

Several things this week have annoyed me and affected my interaction with my family.  Today I have decided not to let things get to me, and I am trying to be extra kind to James and the girls.

So Much Fun!

Lauren's pre K teacher is getting married Saturday, so Kaitlyn and I went to Target to get her a recovery gift.  We got a word search book, a giant piece of dark chocolate, and bubble bath (coconut scented since I doubt she is going anywhere tropical!)  It was fun until the end.  A little girl walked to our cart and gave Kaitlyn a baby doll that she enjoyed playing with.  I put it up before we got in line and she sobbed for the next 15 minutes.  That is the life of a 2 year old!

When Lauren gets home I will have her color a picture for Ms. Hulse and she can take the gift in tomorrow.

Weekly Note

I am sending one of my "You're a Blessing!" cards to my aunt Gail with a picture and the verse Ecclesiastes 3:11.  The beginning says "He has made everything beautiful in its time."  I told her how God has made her beautiful in His time and His ways. 

Headache Reliever

This afternoon my head started to pound.  The kids got louder and screechier, at least until I thought about what I could do for my blog!  Nothing jumped out at me until I ran across a copy of the book Christmas Jars by Jason Wright.  Barbara gave me this for Christmas a few years ago and the story is great.  A family starts a tradition of filling up a jar with spare change and gives it to someone in need on Christmas Eve.  I decided to drop the book by our friends' house tonight.  I bet they will love it and may start something like this with their 5 homeschooled kids!

A Tough Job

We went to Mellow Mushroom tonight and gave the waitress a bigger tip than we would normally.  She definitely wasn't the best, but she was trying.

Letter Day

My cousin Lee's widow has been on my mind this week.  Christy is so brave and strong!  I was not close to Lee, but it is still hard to believe he is gone.  She is such a great example of living her life and trusting God, and I plan on writing her a note telling her that!

Toiletries for the Homeless

I went to Walmart to shop for NorthStar's "big give" for the month.  They are asking for us to fill up bags for MUST to give out with shampoo, toilet paper, soap, deodorant, toothpaste, tooth brush, and razor (things you can't buy with food stamps but are needed to maintain dignity.)  I was able to do 2 bags!

More Cookies!

Lauren and I made cookies today and are giving half of them to my stressed out friend.  She is pregnant, works 4  12 hour shifts a week as a nurse, and is alone with her 2 girls this week since her husband is out of town.   I know she will appreciate chocolate!

Bigger Things

The girls drew pictures for both sets of grandparents today, and I was able to get them in the mail today and not tomorrow!

So the neighbor I gave candles to last week blessed me yesterday.  We had Lauren's first soccer game yesterday afternoon and it was stressful for me (for lots of reasons.)  We had driven separately and Kaitlyn and I got home first.  I had been crying and noticed a pink bag on our front porch.  I knew instantly it was the one we had given Liz.  She put a thank you note for the candles and 4 little rubber ducks in the bag.  Kaitlyn yelled "DUCKIIIIIIES!!"  and has not let those suckers go.  It meant so much to me to get that note at that time, and Liz had no way of knowing that!

Hee Hee

Tonight at Target and kidless, I looked around at cards.   I found a great one for some college friends who just moved.  It is still making me laugh!

I Am Lame

For some reason our neighbor Liz came to my mind this afternoon.  She and her dog live a few houses down and we run into them on walks on occasion.  She is always very sweet, but who knows why I picked her!  So I put a few pastel colored candles in a little bag and put a note saying Happy Spring.  The girls and I walked to her house.  Quite a production walking 2 little girls 5 houses and back.....

Progress

Well, I haven't done anything blog-worthy today but am still learning.  Since I have been trying not to just do something early in the day to get it out of the way, it makes me think about what I could do all day.  Yes, the days I take care of this earlier are nice, but it can't happen all the time.  Kaitlyn and I were out some this morning and then we went to get pizza with James' parents.  When I was doing all of this, nothing came to me.  BUT I thought about it!  I am definitely more in tune with what I could and not in my own head.

Chocolate Cure

Carrie's husband is out of town this week too, AND she is sick!  Since she won't let me take her baby off her hands so she can sleep, I decided to bring her something.  Kaitlyn and I got donuts for us and her! (Yes, we are still training for a 5K!)

Fridge Decoration

My aunt Vivi is very lonely, so I want to brighten her day.  I forgot to get her a funny card today, but Lauren drew a cute picture of a fairy. I am going to send it to her!

Five Bucks is Five Bucks!

A woman saw that I was selling a portable bassinet on Craigslist for $5.  We talked on the phone, and she told me she is expecting her 6th baby (first boy)!  I decided to just give it to her instead.  She needs plenty more, and I understand how it is to be on one income with kids. 

The Heart of a Child

My sweet girl may penetrate her great grandmothers heart!  James' grandma has never been easy to get along with, but that doesn't stop Lauren from trying.  Over the years I have sent pictures ("How am I supposed to see something so small?") and then had some framed and matted ("Where am I going to put that?")  Well now that she has been at the rehab hospital all these months, Lauren likes to send her pictures.  Today she painted a rainbow for "Daddy's grandma, because she is sick."  By the time we are done, the walls of the hospital room will be wallpapered in drawings.  How can you not smile in a room like that?

Closet

I have clothes in my closet that I don't wear (who doesn't?)  So today I am going through and pulling things to donate.  There is no sense keeping things that don't fit or that I like but don't wear.  Plenty of people can use what I don't!

What Did We Do Before Facebook!?

This afternoon had some frustrations and then I thought about the blog.  Some days, like today, I don't feel like doing anything for it.  But all it took was a few minutes on Facebook, thinking about others and what they are going through, and I am in a slightly better mood.  I picked 3 people to check in with and tried to encourage them. 

TWO Notes!

There has been a lot of talk lately about Ga Pre K continuing as it is, and I have really been upset for Lauren's teachers.  They work hard and really love what they do, but they deal with 20 4 and 5 year old every day!  Yikes!  I chatted with the assistant teacher today, and despite them taking a pay cut, they are planning on returning next year.  They inspired me to write each of them a note (on the note cards with my name that I found the other day!)  I want to thank them individually for how they are helping to shape Lauren's life.

Teaching Compassion and Faith

In the mail I got my receipt for our monthly donation to St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital.  Lauren was fascinated by the envelope and opened it.  These come every month so I don't need it.  She pulled out a picture of a little boy and said she wanted to put it in her room because it is so cute.  I had a light bulb moment and told her they send this picture to us so we can pray for him.  Turns out it is a sticker.  All these years of getting these letters and I never knew that!  So now we are starting to pray for Seth at night.

Wisdom

I am giving a great friend a note card with a verse to encourage her in what she is struggling with now.  As Proverbs 27:17 says: As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.  What a joy to have someone with whom we can share the personal issues we have!

Lauren's Art

James' grandma is still not doing great and his parents are going down to see her in a few days.  I had Lauren color a picture for them to bring to her.  She can show it off to the people at the rehab place!

More Complimentary

There has been a lot going on today so I have had to sneak in some nice words for the girls.  They were so good at the dentist and really behaved and did anything they were asked.  Tonight Lauren colored even better than normal and Kaitlyn was building a big tower with blocks.  They both have such unique talents and I want to encourage them to do what they are good at.  Hearing a compliment really brightens their little faces!

Multitasker

While I walked through the canned vegetable aisle at Publix today, I picked up a few cans to donate at Church.  I got my grocery shopping done and did something nice at the same time!

Finally Doing It!

Years ago, I decided I would write someone a letter once a week.  So I got pretty cards with my name on them and maybe wrote letters the first 2 weeks before I stopped.  (Those pretty cards are probably somewhere in the house.)  Now that I have this blog I really do it about once a week.  It is so easy to let someone know you are thinking of them!  Today I wrote a note to our good friend Kathie Sipple. 

Fun Day

Tonight we were in Athens and met up with our friend Srav.  We took her to Mellow Mushroom and paid for her dinner and gave a bigger tip than normal.  So much for a cheaper week off, but we had a great time catching up and treating Srav!

Waaaaay Too Much Work!

Since we had to go to Walmart today, I thought I would try buying the cashier a Coke.  The poor thing was so confused when I told her it was for her.  She said she didn't think she was allowed to, but we talked to another cashier and it was fine.  She seemed so flustered and had all these excuses.  She reminded me of us in life.  So many times we feel we don't deserve something good happening or it seems like it has been so long since anything good has happened, we don't recognize it when it does.  How sad that we don't just accept good things and say thank you!
She finally did accept the Coke and even asked if I am a Christian!  I told her yes, and that I got this idea from Church.  In the end I made her day, after she got out of her own way.

Musings

Well, this week is a bit different again, with Lauren home from school for winter break and James home for vacation.  All my normal routines are impossible.  But we did take the girls to Tellus Museum, for kids.  We had a great time, but obviously it was not mine or James' choice to go.  We just knew they would love it.  So we did something for the girls, and all had a blast!
This whole blog idea has really been teaching me a lot about myself.  There are definitely days I wish I could just quit.  But I also know if I didn't write about it (even if no one reads it), I wouldn't necessarily do something every day.  I have learned what my talents are and what I can do at this phase of my life.  For instance I enjoy giving people little gifts and encouraging them with a note.  The times I have done volunteer work, I have enjoyed it.  However, since I always have at least one child with me and James' work schedule is tough to work around, I find it hard to do.  When I had to cancel volunteering, I hated letting someone down.  Now I know I need to be patient and do more volunteering when the girls are a little older.  If I hadn't been doing this blog, I wouldn't be aware of these things.  And I wouldn't be wondering what I could for someone!

Took Care of Numero Uno

I did something for myself today.  For the first time since before I was pregnant with Lauren (so, what, about 6 years?) I got my nails done!  It doesn't cost much, but I always seem to talk myself out of it.  Not today though! 

So Sad

Today I am just sending a card to someone who lost a baby yesterday.  :(

Kinda Fun!

I was planning on taking the girls to James' parents this afternoon, and I offered to get Jane something at Starbucks.  She said she was trying to be good, so no.  I went through the drive-thru and ended up with $3.11 left on a gift card (not my birthday one).  When the cashier gave me my drink, I asked her to use the balance on the lady's order behind me.  She smiled and said OK.  I have never done that before, but it felt good!

Mmm Cookies

When we were driving through the neighborhood this morning, I looked at the house that an older couple live in and saw the woman sitting in the window.  It made me think of my Grandma and I wondered if she was sitting waiting for someone to come or just enjoying the sun.  :)  I felt compelled to take them cookies today.  We have only met them once, but that is not important.  The girls and I made chocolate chip and dropped them off this afternoon.  He was so appreciative and chatted with the girls.  The walk home took some time because the girls wanted to pick every dandelion in the 2 yards between us.  Nice simple gesture that we benefited from too!

Happy Valentine's Day!

Yeah yeah I know I am late.  With sickness in the house the last week, we kind of skipped over Valentine's Day.  This morning I was at the grocery store where all the sale stuff was out.  So since everyone seems to be getting better, I got my 3 valentines some special things.  We made it through, and I want to let them all know I love them!

Glad I Thought Ahead

Yesterday I was reading a book and kept thinking how a friend might like it too.  I was going to go to get it for her today, but decided to do it yesterday instead.  Good thing since the rest of my family is now sick, and it would be hard to get out.  Hope she enjoys it!

More For Church

Our Church does such amazing things all the time!  This month's big give is this Sunday, and we are supposed to bring cookies and juice boxes for the special needs dance. I picked some up this afternoon to bring.  I love the hearts that do special things like this and a ball field, that are dedicated to kids with special needs.  It makes them feel so special!

I Am Such a DORK!

The girls and I had to go to the bank and gas station this afternoon, and I always bring my post it notes these days.  So I decided to leave notes for the people after me at the ATM and pump.  I wrote "Everyone looks good with a smile!"  I didn't want to insult someone by saying "better", hence the "good."  Always thinking!  Maybe whoever reads them will just groan, but maybe they will groan AND smile!

Nothing New Today

My plan today was to make cookies for us (it is Kaitlyn's half birthday) and for someone else.  I hadn't decided who yet.  But when Kaitlyn got sick with some stomach bug and I don't feel so good, that plan flew out the window.  No one wants germy cookies anyways.  We can make them when we all feel good!

Stealth Mode

Once again I did something random (which means I couldn't think of anything else).  I had another pad of paper that has Matthew 7:7 at the bottom "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you."  I took the dog on a walk with it. As I walked by a neighbor's yard I heard another dog bark, so I put it on their porch.  So scientific. We haven't seen this family much lately, but at least it is someone I know!

Sweet

At the grocery store this morning, I got a bag of James' favorite candy.  After spending time with just him this weekend, I am more grateful to have him as my partner in life!  And maybe if the girls are good he will share with them....

Call Betty Ford

I am addicted to making people smile!  The other day I had bought a box of 12 Ferrero Rocher chocolates.  I gave it to Lauren's teacher for her and the rest of the ladies.  They earn it every day.  She is always so appreciative and smiley!

You've Got Mail

For some reason, I have had some family friends on my mind the last few days.  I decided to write them a note.  I love emails, but there is something about getting mail!

Sometimes Good Things Are Contagious Too

James told me I rubbed off on him!  He had a coupon for a free chicken biscuit at Chick-Fil-A and tried to use it today.  The cashier didn't understand and charged him for one and gave him a free one.  He thought about explaining he only wanted one but then decided to give the extra one away!  What a good man!

100 Posts!

And on my birthday!  This morning has not been what I expected.  Yesterday I got a postcard from Starbucks for a free drink.  I brought it with me to the gym today, so I could use it after I worked out.  On the way there, I thought I would give it away instead.  I had looked forward to it, but suddenly this sounded better.  My first idea was to give it someone in line at Starbucks, but my name and address is on it.  That didn't sound safe.  Then I thought of Holly at the gym.  I was on my way there anyways, and her Dad finally had his brain surgery Friday.  Her life is very up and down these days, and her one vice is coffee.  When I got there, she happened to be by the door and told me Happy Birthday!  I pulled the card out and when she saw it, she asked if I got this backwards.  :)  It made me feel so good to give it to her and she said she could use this now.

I thought the story was over, but it wasn't.  When Kaitlyn and I got home there was a bag on my doorstep from Carrie.  This wasn't a shock, but I thought there would be cookies in it since it is what is known as "Tookie Tuesday."   There was a sweet card with a STARBUCKS GIFT CARD!  I had just given coffee away, and it came back to me.  I felt God used Carrie to show me He saw me give Holly a gift and brought much more to me.   What a testimony to trying to live life with your hand held open.  And what a way to end my first 100 days of this blog!

A Little Extra

As it is Monday, it is grocery store morning here.  Yes, I lead a glamorous life.  As I was walking around Publix, I found some nonperishable things that are on sale and put them in the cart.  There is usually a big donation barrel in the front, but there wasn't today.  I will probably take it to MUST last this week and drop it off.   Before this blog I wouldn't have thought to do it, but I am learning to look for these opportunities!

Kids Come In Handy

James' Grandma was in the hospital again recently and is now back in the rehab facility.  Today I mailed a picture Lauren colored.  The one time the girls have met their great grandma, Lauren really took to her, so I hope it brightens her day!

Completely Crazy!

The girls and I went for our weekly pizza night and made a huge mess.  (Big shock really.)  Our waitress was very nice, as usual.  I gave her extra in the tip to make up for that.  Can't wait for Daddy to come home tomorrow!

My Mother's Daughter

This morning Kaitlyn and I dropped Lauren off at school and went for a peaceful breakfast at Burger King (with our coupons in hand).  I picked a table and we sat down and ate.  After a few minutes I noticed the man sitting at the table closest to us.  He looked like he had been there a while and was still drinking his coffee.  Then he started talking to me.  Oh the topics he chose!  He kept talking about the things people have survived.....It was a good thing I had finished eating!  I really did not want to chat with him, but he seemed either a bit on the crazy side or lonely.  Either way, I gave him my attention and didn't just ignore him.  I must have been wearing my "talk to me; I'll listen" t-shirt!

No One Puts Sarah in the Corner!

Yesterday the 2 people who run the gym I go to were very helpful to me.  I had trouble with a new member and they kicked him out!  It wasn't just me that he bothered and they had been warning him, but still. Going there had become stressful, but I didn't want him to run me off.  I loved that they stuck up for us!  I wrote both of them thank you notes today and told them how much happier I am now.

Souper Bowl

Our Church's big give this month is to bring in canned soup on Sunday.  We are part of a food drive to help stock local food banks.  I bought some cans today while shopping so it is ready for Sunday.  I like to be prepared!

Thank You!

We received yummy cookies from Carrie and Maggie on Tuesday, and I didn't want to return the Tupperware empty!  I put in some chocolate tea bags and a bath bomb that helps you sleep.  Nothing like chocolate and a bath for relaxation!

No Stamp Needed!

For some reason I have had a friend on my mind since yesterday that I haven't seen in about 16 years.  I know through Facebook she has had some tough things happen in the last month.  I don't know the details, but I took this as God whispering to me.  I just sent her a message with a few Bible verses that she may need to hear.  If it doesn't exactly apply to her at this moment, they are still good reminders!  After Job 23:10 "But He knows the way that I take; when He has tested me, I will come forth as gold" I told her to think about how shiny she is going to be.  Maybe she will at least smile.  (Hey I chuckled!)

A Happy Family is a Fat Family

I knew James' parents were coming over tonight, so I involved them.  They had been out of town for a while, and I figured both wanted to see the girls.  I made brownies with peanut butter chips and gave them some too.   The girls wanted more and James is eating more now.  Good call I suppose!

Books Books Books

Since the girls got a LOT of books and coloring books for Christmas, I am going to go through the old ones and give some away.  If they haven't used older ones yet, they aren't going to!

The Post Office Must Love Me!

An update from last week:  I chatted with the mail lady Saturday, and she thanked me for my note.  She said it made her cry!  She had been out Wednesday, trying to deliver mail in the ice.  The heat was out in her truck, she slid all over the place, and even almost pinned a man to his mailbox!  After 6 hours, she gave up.  So it was so nice the next day for her to get a thank you.

Today has been busy, but a tragedy happened to a family in our Church this weekend.  An 18 year old member was killed in a car accident on the icy roads.  Her family has been on my mind, even though I have not met them.  I am sending them a card to let them know I am praying for them.  I can't even imagine.....

More Baking

James had not been in the office since last Wednesday, so I thought I would ease his transition.  I made cookies for him to take in and put in the kitchen there.  I bet they lasted about 5 minutes!

Running Out of Ideas This Week

We managed to get out of the house this evening and go get some pizza.  Our waitress gave us pretty good service, so we left a bigger tip than normal.  It is not a big deal, but hopefully it was to her.

Nothing Stops the Mail Huh?

Unless you live in GA during a snowstorm.  Our mail has not come all week, but I can't complain.  I haven't exactly braved the weather.  But I think it will tomorrow since they were delivering some.  I can't imagine driving around in the cold all day with icy spots everywhere. So today I wrote a thank you note on a post it thanking our mail lady for her hard work.  And maybe, just maybe, she will see it sometime this month.

Food for a Snowy Day

With day 2 of being snowed in, I was once again limited.  But never fear, I had stocked up on baking supplies last weekend!  This morning blueberry muffins sounded good, so I made a batch.  After lunch we went for a walk and took a couple to some neighbors behind us.  Hot muffins are great on a cold snowy day!

I Really Am Becoming My Grandma

This week is going to be tough with the HUGE amount of snow we have!  I don't have many options as we can't go anywhere....I am sending my aunt Vivi a card since it has been awhile since I have done that.  Who knows if it will be taken by the mailman anytime soon, but I will try!

Good Service

This afternoon I got a Great Clips haircut and had a fun conversation with the girl who cut it.  I decided to give her a couple dollars more than I normally would for a tip.  Didn't cost a lot of money, but I got a big smile!

Pictures

I love being able to take advantage of Lauren's love of drawing (and her ability!)  Since Boppa and Nana gave them crayon rocks we decided to have both girls make cards for them.  This worked fine until Kaitlyn didn't want to share the crayon rocks and had a 2 year old meltdown.  Hers may not be finished.  Lauren really enjoyed it though.  They can go in the mail tomorrow.

Gotta Do What I Gotta Do

 There is a 5K walk/run I want to do in less than 3 months, so I am a bit more motivated to get rid of Christmas treats now......James' parents gave us these great biscuits with a layer of dark chocolate on top.  They are so good, but I ate the first box myself.  The other one was unopened so I took it to the bank today and told the teller they could have it.  I do like fattening other people up!
A follow up from yesterday:  Holly told me this morning that I told her just what she needs to hear.  She was on her way to take her Dad to get an MRI of his brain.  The cancer had started in his kidney, then went to his lungs.  Now they are looking at his brain.  I am amazed that God put her in my mind yesterday without me knowing what was going on to give her a reminder from Him. 

A Reminder

My friend Holly's Dad is sick.  She herself is a kidney cancer survivor and now her Dad has cancer.  Since she is a very caring and encouraging person, I think she forgets that she needs encouragement too!  She has asked for prayers, and I am glad to do that, but I sent her an email tonight with II Cor 12:9 "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."  I reminded her that God is strengthening her family's faith and to rely on Him when she gets worried.  She already has a strong faith, but we are all tested from time to time.

What Would We Do Without Friends?

James and I had Lauren's parent/teacher conference today, so I asked Carrie to keep the girls for a little while.  Of course Kaitlyn was cranky all morning and made me nervous!  Since Carrie was so nice to help me, I brought donuts for her family.  Enjoy, Jenkins family!  ;)